Should I have a child at all — or another one?
When women or couples ask themselves whether it is selfish to have children, there can be many different reasons behind this question. Perhaps there are voices from others or even accusations they feel confronted with. Or perhaps it is their own thoughts that play a role — for example, whether it is right to bring a child into this world at all.
This question is not new. Throughout history, there have always been crises such as wars, poverty, or natural disasters. It is a deeply responsible desire to want to care for a child as well as possible and to give them a good life.
At the same time, there is increasing discussion about whether the world can sustain more people (overpopulation, climate crisis…). Yet future generations also ensure the continuity and stability of countries and societies. The question of having children is therefore often viewed morally or influenced by political debates — and this can create pressure on (expectant) parents.
Perhaps it can help to become aware of your own values, as well as your dreams and personal aspirations.
You might also ask yourself: Can parents be called selfish when they pass on life, do everything for their child, and put their own needs aside? Can parents be selfish if they teach their child good values and a sense of responsibility? And can we also learn from children, because they enrich the world with their lightness, innocence, and love, making it more humane?
You have the freedom to discover and follow your very own path — trusting your intuition and listening to your heart.
Our tip — take the self-test:
Have a child: yes or no? – Your self-test
Perhaps you are asking yourself questions such as: Am I ready for a baby? Should I have children at all and become a mother? Do I want another child?
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