Have an Abortion or Keep the Baby? Decision Coaching

Pregnant and Not Sure What to Do Next?

  • 7 days of free coaching
  • Inspiration, reflection questions & stories via email
  • Helpful, confidential, and compassionate support ❤️

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Abort or keep the baby? You probably never wanted to face this decision... But now you're asking yourself: How can I figure out which way is right for me?

Sign up for our email coaching and receive a compassionate email every day for a week, offering insights, decision-making support, and experiences from other women. This will help you explore your worries, strengths, and possible solutions. Maria from Profemina will guide you step by step toward clarity!

All decision coaching emails will be in English. If English isn’t your first language, we hope it still works well for you — feel free to use a translation tool if needed.

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Our decision coaching including the emails is also available in French, Portuguese, German and Italian.

What women are saying about the decision-making coaching:

"The coaching was exactly what I needed. It allowed me to hear what my heart was telling me and make a good decision for myself. Thank you so much!"

Sara, January 02, 2024

"Hello dear Maria, Thank you so much for your wonderful letters! They were truly thought-provoking. Each letter was beautiful and filled with empathy. They made me feel encouraged and each new email brought tears to my eyes. I am deeply grateful."

Raphaella, November 14, 2023

"Even though I haven’t been able to make a decision for myself yet, I’m really glad I did the coaching. It was a beautiful experience."

Michaela, February 7, 2024

"Hello, after the coaching and a few very intense weeks filled with fear, pressure, and a sense of being lost, I now feel calmer. (…) Thank you for the valuable coaching. I hope that all women who are feeling uncertain receive the help they need and have people around them to support them."

Katrin, April 28, 2025

Your Decision Coach Maria

My name is Maria. I am married and mom to two little boys. After graduating in social pedagogy, I started working as a counselor for Profemina. Following the birth of my first child, I began writing passages such as these to help pregnant women in difficult decision-making situations. My writing is influenced by my years of counseling pregnant women as well as my experience as a mother...

Walking alongside you during this week-long coaching program would be an honor. My desire for you is that you would discover your unique strengths and the amazing traits only you possess. Recognizing these is a vital first step in making a decision that is right for you.

Sign up today — I look forward to starting this journey with you!

How Does This Coaching Work?

Over the next seven consecutive days, an email will land in your inbox.

Taking these daily sessions for a week will give you room to unpack your worries and focus on your strengths and possible solutions. This will help you gain clarity about your situation and how to move forward.

Each email also includes stories and experiences of women who were in situations similar to yours.

Content Overview:

  • Everyone writes their own unique and powerful story. Yet many women in our counseling have gone through a situation like yours. Let’s dive in and read about three of these experiences.

    Bonus: Our Mood Meter is a step toward mindfulness, allowing you to pinpoint your emotions in this current situation.

  • When resolving a conflict and overcoming a difficult situation, it helps first to clarify where the challenge lies. What is currently proving to be difficult in your situation regarding pregnancy? How can you address it?

    Bonus: Worth more than 1000 words — tell your story by taking the Picture Quiz and receive an immediate evaluation.

  • Maybe you feel immersed in darkness right now... You may wonder how to discern a way forward. Is there any hope? This day will give you the opportunity to reconnect with yourself and with what makes you one of a kind.

    Bonus: Take our Strengths Finder Test to unveil what unique set of strengths and abilities you already hold.

  • Finding solid ground on which to stand is essential in making a good decision. A secure foothold allows for confident decision-making. Here, we take a closer look at how you can achieve this.

    Bonus: Pregnancy Personality Test — What are your unique traits? What distinguishes your personality type, and how would that affect your parenting style? Find out by taking this test!

  • What distinguishes a good decision? In this session, you will learn to identify five characteristics of a good decision. This can become a tangible decision-making checklist for you to go by.

    Bonus: What is your decision-making style? Take this test to find out and receive valuable tips for your situation.

  • How would it feel to be able to say the words at the end of your life commonly allotted to heroes, “And she lived happily ever after”? Expect a change of perspective during this session that may bring you a big step closer to your decision.

    Bonus: Heart or mind — which one is weighing in more? Take the test!

  • Using Sandy’s story, during today's session, we will explore what your life's lighthouse could be and how it can illuminate your way forward.

    Bonus: Your Closing Dialogue allows you to retrace your steps and home in on your current situation.

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